Don’t Forget To Flirt – That Is What Dating Is All About
Flirting Begins A Connection – That Connection Can Turn Into A Relationship
Before you start flirting, there a couple of things to do first:
- Prepare yourself mentally to just enjoy the art of flirting
- When you catch a guy’s attention, don’t play hard to get
- Let him know that you are interested with your warm smile
- Keep your body language open and not closed off
- Have fun with flirting, practice makes perfect
5 Fabulous Flirting Tips That Work. Stick to the basic flirting techniques and ditch the complicated ones. Simple is best.
1. Get closer
Close enough that the guy you’re interested in knows that he’s on your radar. If he’s on the other side of the room or bar, take a walk in his direction. If he’s sitting alone, make a point of joining him. The closer you get to someone (within reason), the easier it is to see if there’s chemistry and create a positive, flirty energy between you.
2. Smile more
No guy is ever going to think you like him or even want to spend much time with you if you’re not smiling. A smile makes you seem approachable, relaxed and like you’re having a good time – the three most important factors when it comes to meeting men. Let your natural, easy smile shine through. That also helps both of you relax and be at ease with each other. Men always seek to find a woman they can make happy and your smile will let him answer that question – you are enjoying him.
It is very alluring to have a woman get a guys humor. Being able to laugh – with him, at him and at yourself – shows you have a sense of humor, which is a trait most guys gravitate towards. Plus laughing at his jokes will make him connect with you, and the better the connection, the better your chances are at keeping his attention all night.
Lean in and brush up against his shoulder, put your hand on his back or touch his arm as you tell him something. Touching sends the message that you are into him and it’s a signal he won’t be able to ignore. Subtle touching will make him feel like he’s the only guy in the room, a feeling he will want to hang onto – not to mention the instant sparks that can be created through touch.
5. Make eye contact
You can’t make a solid connection with someone if you aren’t looking them in the eye. This one might seem really obvious, but when you’re nervous (and some people are when they flirt), there is a tendency to look down, across the room and at everything but the person you’re with. Do your best to meet his gaze – and hold it then look away and look back with a smile. A warm, inviting smile can be all you need to do to catch his attention.
Give this a try – practice makes perfect!