Five Flirting Styles
The Five Flirting Styles will help you realize what you can do differently by discovering what you already do well. You get individualized feedback about your own flirting style from an online inventory. Learn how each style is related to love, sex, personality, and dating.
What is your flirting style? Find out where to look for love based on your flirting style. Find out how others see you based on your flirting style, and how to send the right signals.
Physical flirting involves the expression of sexual interest through body language. People who scored high in this form of flirting often develop relationships quickly. They have more sexual chemistry with their partners.
The polite style of flirting focuses on proper manners and non-sexual communication. While polite flirts generally do not find flirting flattering, they tend to have longer, more meaningful romantic relationships.
People with the playful flirting style flirt with little interest in romance. Flirting is fun and a boost to their self-esteem. They flirt for its own sake – no romantic strings attached.
Sincere flirting involves creating an intense emotional connection and communicating sincere interest. Sincere flirts have meaningful romantic relationships that put emotional connection first and sexual chemistry second.
Traditional flirts believe men should make the first move and women should not pursue men. By taking a more passive role in dating, women with this style are likely to report trouble getting men’s attention. They are less likely to be direct. Likewise, traditional men often know a potential partner for a longer time before approaching them.
There are many ways that people communicate romantic interest. After indicating your level of agreement with the following statements, you will receive your own personalized flirting styles report! This report compares your flirting styles against others the same age and sex as you.
Before starting, it is best to try to imagine yourself as a single person. Imagine how you would respond to these statements at those very first stages of meeting someone new. This will be easy if you are currently single. If you are in a relationship, think about how you would have answered when you were single. Try to think about how you felt on your first date or when you first met your current partner.
Get your individualized feedback about your own flirting style from an online inventory.